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Are you ready to break old relationship patterns and learn to attract the love you deserve?

Now that you’ve found the one, do you want to know how to keep that love from fading?

Lost the spark and looking for someone to help you bring it back?

Are you a Love Professional looking to build a practice you can love?

I’m here to help!

Here are all the ways we can work together…

My work with clients falls into 2 major categories- psychotherapy or coaching.  I also offer workshops, events, retreats, and professional consultation for therapists and matchmakers.  You can learn more about all of the options below.


Nearly a decade ago I co-founded Group Therapy Associates  with a desire to create a modern psychotherapy practice focused on strengthening all relationships and helping clients live life with passion and purpose.

Now as CEO of the practice, I work every day to further that original vision of emotional wellness and healthy relationships as integral parts of a happy and fulfilling life.

In the last two years I launched a new division of GTA called Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word.

Therapy is Not a Dirty Word began as a social media campaign but has blossomed into an amazing event series called Q & A Happy Hours and much more. These events bring local therapists together with the public in fun, relaxed settings to talk about all the ways therapy is NOT a dirty word.   Therapy is Not A Dirty Word also offers a more casual approach to personal development through relationship events and various workshops.

We also sell some pretty cool products and it serves as the new home for my podcast, With That Being Said!

Get to know Esther Boykin at Therapy Is Not A Dirty Word - Happy Hours and With That Being Said Podcast

Therapy is Not A Dirty Word Q & A Happy Hours are happening all over the world; visit our website for upcoming dates and locations.  And you can get a t-shirt too! 

Get to know Esther Boykin at Group Therapy Associates - Psychotherapy and Groups in Washington DC and Northern Virginia

Therapy services are available in our Washington, DC metro area offices with myself or one of my talented colleagues; click above for more information.


I also really love to hang out in person! Click below to learn more about upcoming workshopsretreats, book signings, and social events around the DC area.

Not Tonight Dear- couples workshop on mismatched sex drives
Communication is NOT the problem couples workshop

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